By Oreva Godwin
If talking about sex makes me a sinner, then my dearest readers, let me commit this sin for you. It is my sworn duty to discuss issues that break homes. If sexual life can be improved on, cheating will reduce.
I am open to any pressing sexual questions you intend for me to answer in my next publication. So feel free to send in your questions to Oreavaoghene@gmail.com.
A big hello to my lovely men with small manhood. In as much as you wake up to an early-morning erection, then you are good to go. You have no medical issues; you just need to know how to make good use of your size.
There are speculations that exercise can increase the size of the manhood. That is a big lie. Exercise can never increase the size of your manhood. What exercise does is improve blood circulation, stamina, strength, and endurance in bed.
If you have a big stomach, you need to exercise to flatten it. Once the stomach is flat, the manhood becomes more visible. A big stomach can take one inch or more off the manhood. So if you have a small manhood, you should seriously consider losing belly fat.
A friend of mine once dated a man with a small manhood. She liked him long before she knew his size down there. He was romantic, caring, lots of trips, and treated her like a lady. He exposed her to the world of elites. It was amazing, and he never rushed sex.
The first day they had sex, she saw his manhood and was disappointed. Even though she wasn’t deeply exposed to the world of sex, he wasn’t her first. But since she had feelings for him and he made her happy, nothing else mattered at that time.
Until one day, he told her he had started working out and dieting. He travelled for a course, and they didn’t see each other for two months. He constantly sent her pictures of himself at the gym.
When he came back, he invited her over, and boy, his stomach was completely flat. He looked fit, confident, and sexy. She said, the sex that day was different and amazing. She had to ask him if he took something. He asked why, and she told him the sex felt different, more energy, better movement, and deeper connection. She felt him more. Exercise and dieting made the difference.
I know gym instructors will like this one. Please, if you notice an increase in men at the gym, know it’s from me.
To those with flat stomachs but small manhoods, you are already at an advantage. All you need to do is build your sexual stamina. Exercise to stay fit and invest heavily in foreplay. Master the act of foreplay, that will be your saving grace.
Scientific studies in sexual medicine show that emotional intimacy, arousal, foreplay, and technique contribute more to female sexual satisfaction than penile length.
Most nerve endings responsible for pleasure in the vagina are concentrated in the first 5–7 cm, meaning extreme length offers little added benefit.
Orgasm in women is more closely linked to clitoral stimulation, pelvic rhythm, and arousal state than penetration depth.
Best sex positions for small manhood
Missionary position:
Missionary position is one of the best styles for men with small manhoods. This is why you need a flat stomach, to avoid chopping off your inches and to allow full penetration. Placing a pillow under your partner’s hips creates a better angle, allowing deeper penetration and increased contact.
If you have a big stomach, you need to raise your upper body slightly while penetrating, so your stomach rests on her stomach and not directly on her private area. This allows more of you to go inside her. This is why men with big stomachs and small manhoods should consider partners without big stomachs.
Doggy position:
This position can allow deeper penetration when done correctly. However, you need a woman who understands this style for men with your manhood size. The receiving partner can adjust her position by lowering her chest or using pillows to change the angle. Men with small manhoods should realistically go for women with smaller buttocks. Avoid women with very big buttocks. Be honest and realistic in your preferences.
Cowgirl position;
This position gives the receiving partner control over depth and angle. She can move her waist and adjust herself to angles that stimulate her better. This position works well because it reduces pressure on the man and allows better rhythm.
Bridge position:
This is when the receiving partner lies on her back with her feet flat on the bed and lifts her hips. The penetrating partner kneels between her legs. This position can allow deeper penetration. Note that you are to hold her hips firmly as you thrust. This is why fitness is important to enjoy this mind-blowing position.
Nirvana (Also known as tight missionary):
In this position, the receiving partner keeps her legs close together, with her feet on your chest or her legs placed on your left or right shoulder, depending on her height. This creates tighter sensation and increased friction. To enjoy this position fully, you should go for women without very big thighs. As I said earlier, choose a woman based on the size of your manhood, not just physical preference. Be realistic.
As a man with a small manhood, you must build confidence. If you lack confidence, you will not be able to enjoy these sex positions. Confidence affects performance, movement, rhythm, and communication.
Stick to one partner, especially when you have not mastered foreplay or built good stamina. Constant mockery can destroy your self-confidence and affect your sexual performance.
Foreplay cannot be overemphasized. Master it. If you can be as good as, or even better than, a woman’s previous sexual experiences, then you have already won. Good foreplay increases arousal, lubrication, relaxation, and sexual responsiveness.
People need to stop the “accept me as I am” mindset when it comes to sexual effort. Debunk that mentality. It is one of the reasons partners hate sex and some end up cheating.
My Delta men, especially Isoko and Urhobo men, need to hear this. Having strong confidence that your wives will endure a zero-fun sex life because tradition punishes women for cheating is sad. Sexual neglect is also a form of emotional harm.
The good thing is that the size of the manhood does not determine potency. If it did, many men would be childless.
Work on yourself, not just for yourself, but for the sake of your partner. The size of your manhood should never limit your sexual performance. Stop tormenting your partner. Sexual satisfaction is a shared responsibility.
Be that man that nobody can use sex to take away his woman. Don’t let the size of your manhood limit you from being that man.
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